Dear Joe,

I had a boyfriend for almost 8 years. But things got different as years pass by. He change a lot, and became so possessive to me. I got tired that he is always making me cry. Until last December, I had the chance to mingle with an officemate. He also had a girlfriend. But just like me, He's also having problems with his girl. That night was so wonderful that we cannot explain the feelings. It's just that we felt love at all. After that night we agree to finish our own business with my boyfriend and his girlfriend as well. We are so happy for 6 months. Until i found out that his ex-girlfriend for 3 years wants to have their relationship back to normal. I ask him to choose between me and his ex but he cannot decide. It hurt so much that i can feel that he still loves his ex.Things got different tha he's making me feel that im not that important to him.Help me joe. It really hurts but i love him so much.